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Week#20 of The NagerBazar Newsletter where I share something useful, something productive and something entertaining.
Dear all
Today's word is "porcupine dilemma".
The porcupine dilemma is a metaphorical situation that shows the difficulty in balancing the need for closeness and the fear of getting hurt. Imagine a group of porcupines huddling together for warmth on a cold day. As they get closer, their sharp quills start pricking each other, causing pain.
Similarly, in human relationships, we desire emotional closeness, but we also fear rejection and emotional harm. This dilemma often leads to a delicate dance of maintaining a safe distance to avoid hurt, while still seeking the warmth of connection. It's a challenge many of us face in our relationships.
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